Tuesday, June 21, 2011

.: 说再见 :.


再见不会是永远。

听了你的问题,我不知道怎么说呢。因为我觉得你没那么年轻。现在你二十三岁。已经长大了。

我想问你;你认识他多就了?你们对彼此有感觉吗?你已经知道他还想念他的以前的女朋友,所以你为什么还想他呢?听我说,如果他不能爱上你,你可以等他吗?就算你可以等他,你不觉得你浪费时间吗?为了他,必要让自己煎熬吗?

"有缘无份的爱,真是有缘无份的爱",你可以接受这种说法吗?

我明白现在你特别爱他,但是你应该好好想一想,是不是有可能你和他有点不合适? 我的意思是,请别盲目的爱他。问别人他们有什么想法对他。因为别人可以发现他是认真还是不认真。

还有,你去北京因为你要找更好的生活,对不对?你不是剩女,所以现在爱情不是最重要的事。你应该好好找一个好工作。努力工作,然后我相信你可以找到更好的男人。

最后是,我们都有一条生活。希望你给自己时间考虑这两件事。不要拿自己的幸福开玩笑吧~

The last essay I submitted to my teacher.

Note: Please use Google Translator or drop me an email for translations.

Collectively it had been close to 10 months since I began re-learning Chinese. There were days where I dreaded the thought of going to class, and there were days where I felt as though I am drifting aimlessly. Even though at times I behaved like a whiny baby in class, my teacher and classmates kept cheering me on. Supporting me all the way to excel to a point far beyond imaginable expectations.

Last Friday was my teacher's last day in Malaysia. His return to Beijing also marks the completion of our level 5 class, on which we will move on to level 6 or advanced classes with another teacher.

Despite having said this one too many times, I can't help but to say this once more ...

Thank you 刘老师.
2.17pm Malaysian Time

5 comments:

Ikhwan Ng said...

Assalamualaikum...

A love story? It seems so nice..

Jeanne-ming said...

Is this your love story or teachers?

By the way, my daughter Leigh has moved to KL with her husband. She has been there a month and loves it!

I encouraged her to find you!

Hajar said...

Ikhwan Ng :: Wa'alaikum'as'salam bro. Sort of. It was one of the assignments from my teacher. :)

Jeanne-Ming :: More of ... my teachers' little sisters' love story. Our assignment was to advice his little sister.

By all means, pls make it possible! I would love to connect with her! I'll drop you a message in FB one of these days. :)

Indaq said...

Salam,

nIce post..hehe
btw, i was just decide that i want to learn chinese. perhaps, u can show me the way to master this language.

for the moment, im self-learner, so quite difficult to determine which one i should focus onto.

thanks.

Hajar said...

Indaq :: Wa'alaikum'as'salam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu.

Subhan'Allah! I am far from mastering the language for I believe there are still many things I am unaware of.

Great to know you have embarked on the journey! May Allah make it easy for you. I used to self-study but it came to a point where I realized I needed the extra guidance. I don't mind exchanging notes and I am willing to help out if you encounter any difficulties.

Feel free to shoot me an email & I will get back to you soon, insha'Allah. :)